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Visiting the cottage

After all those blog posts about my Crazy Chinese Family I want to share with you some  place I love to visit. It is the cottage owned by my parents somewhere in the woods of Finland.

In another article I wrote about the weird place called Kammi-Kylä which is just a short distance away from the cottage.

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View upon the lake

Now then, let’s start with that lovely place. According to urban legend stories told by some of our neighbors the main part of the building used to be a pharmacy in another little village and was brought to the lake some when in the 50’s or 60’s. It is estimated that the main frame was built in the end of the 1890’s but no one is sure about it anymore. The building is actually a log house but due to years of different owners with various taste the outside and inside of the building changed a lot. Nowadays there are at least three layers of different wooden planks of various colors added over each over in addition to at least two layers of planks in the inside of the building, resulting in a stunning 80cm (~31.5in) thick wall in the first floor. Thanks to these thick walls it is also pretty soundproofed, few years back few helicopters flew around the lake and over our cottage due to a rescue mission but my parents didn’t hear a thing. I bet I could be outside and shout my lungs out and no one would notice it inside. The upper floor is a bit different and has no longer a log house structure (damn you unknown previous owner) so the walls are considerable thinner.

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Main building and sauna

Anyways, my parents bought the cottage when I was about six years old and renovated everything over the years to make themselves a new homely home. The lake where the cottage is situated is called “Nummijärvi” which belong to the city of Kauhajoki. Great names for foreigners and I advice you not try to pronounce it because it will most likely sound very very wrong and funny.

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In my youth I spent a lot of time there (each summer at least six weeks and several winter holidays) but in the last years I have been just too busy to go there and especially now I have barely visited it with my wife. However this changed last year as we went to China for holidays and we needed a place for our two little bunnies. My parents advised us to take them to the cottage so they would take care of them and even better we would finally be able visit that place again.

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XiaoTuTu and TuBaoBei
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XiaoTuTu’s favorite activity: Eating
TuBaoBei curios as always
TuBaoBei curios as always

My parents-in-law were amazed by the place, the nature, the peace and I bet also by a little boat ride around the lake. They really liked also the possibility of going just into the woods next to the cottage and pick wild blueberries (they seem to love picking berries in Finland). According to them they would love to visit the cottage again but this might take some years as we will move to Germany and it is no short trip up to that house.

This year we will be going again but for longer time, once again because of our bunnies but also because my wife wants to relax a bit as my parents can help out with our baby (and I need to do some repairs on my car, D’oh!)

 

 

Do you have any place you love to visit now or in your youth?

Father-in-law’s Big Surprise

Originally I was planning on giving you some new examples of my crazy mother-in-law but I decided against it thanks to her husband, my infamous father-in-law.

He is not that prominent in my articles as he doesn’t really shine with really weird stuff, his wife is just so much better in that matter. Sure he has his quirks but most of them are due to his OCD so I never go too much into them. However this week he really came all the way through with some really unexpected action.

My wife, as so many other people, is using WeChat 微信 to chat with her friends and also with her parents. Mostly she talks with her mother and rarely sends some messages to her father because they never have something to talk about. Furthermore he does not reply to them most of the time which caused already a lot of trouble with his wife (I might write about it sometime later as it is really hilarious).

This changed last week when our baby boy was born. As my father-in-law is still in China my wife sent him a picture of his grandson but she did not expect him to reply at all. Alright, she had some very tiny hope that he would at least send a short reply but nothing happened for a few days. Then out of nowhere she received a message from her dad, all excited she got me to check it out with her (as it is really a rare occasion for him to reply or send something) and then the big surprise:

 

IT WAS A DAMN ADVERTISEMENT!!!

 

You know, the kind of advertisement you may sometimes receive and says you should forward it to so and so many people to get something for free? Yes, he indeed send that to his daughter in reply of seeing his grandson…

I am still silently laughing about it, but don’t tell my wife!

 

 

And now not to disappoint my readers, a little picture from our baby.

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Our son 5 days old

Our New Family Member

Finally I can write about our new member in our family. I was already planning to write about it last weekend however our little baby boy was just too fond of staying inside his mother so I had to delay this. I wish I could have a great name like Dragon Boy for my son such as in the Blog I follow Raising Dragon Boy but he was born now in the year of the Horse and calling him Horse Boy just doesn’t sound so cool…

On friday the 21.02.2014 at 11:50am GMT+2 he was born after exceeding his rental contract in his mom by 11 days. He measured 3960g/ ~8.7lbs and 52cm/ ~20.5in (hope I got the numbers right as I am only used to the metric system).

Today we were allowed to leave the hospital after spending two nights there. Thankfully everything went well for my wife so she recovered quickly thus far. Furthermore it was nice that we got a family room in the hospital so I was able to stay with my wife and son all the time.

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Our little boy is still a bit shy

Mother-in-law is all excited about her grandson and my wife has all hands full to talk her out of any kind of zuo yuezi 坐月子 her mother tries to force on her (so far my wife defended her position with success). Especially the midwives and doctors at the hospital were shocked to hear about zuo yuezi and were afraid of the health of mother and child due to the bad hygienic situation during that month though some of the rules when it comes to the diet are also recommended here in Finland. I guess I will write an article with more focus on zuo yuezi in the following weeks.

Now I have to finish up this article as our little boy has some demands and I guess he does not want to wait forever for me.